Women Talk

Dear Bloggers/Readers,

Okay this post is going to be a bit out there, there reason being is i think it needs to be said.
i finished reading another book last night (shocker lol) and it got me thinking. Us women are difficult to figure out and sometimes we dont understand what we want ourselves but hey thats not our fault it comes with our make up lol.

Anyway the book i was reading had a lot of sex scenes and what have you and it got me thinking about what she wrote. she talked about how every woman has different fantasies when it comes the bedroom and i have to agree. she talking about how some women dont feel comfortable with sharing what they want to do and what they dream about.

i can whole heartedly agree with what she said, its true, as a women i feel the same i mean yeah of course i have had fantasies about what goes on in the bedroom and the desire to explore appeals to me however i do feel concious about it sometimes but i dont feel the need to hold back on what i want to do.

what i do disagree with within her book is that men are more open about their sexuality. i mean yeah some men are cocky and confident about what they want within the bedroom but not all men are like that. some men are just as shy as us women. i mean ever one is going to have a different reaction to what you want and sometimes other might not agree with want you want. i mean that would be uncomfortable for anyone, like for example if the women in the relationship was curious and wanted to have a threesome with another man or women her partner might not be comfortable with that and start to think that maybe she dreams about being with another man and what not and then it leads to complications however some men might be like hell yeah and be so into it. you never know which way it could go.

what i find funny is that many women share the same fantasies, some wish to be dominated and controlled, they want their partner to own them and not hold back i mean even i could agree that that is pretty damn hot. being under the mercy of someone who wants to own you i mean hot damn. (feeling a bit flustered)

another typical fantasy, roll play,where you can dress up and be someone else. like the typical naughty nurse or the stripper. if i had a guy in front of me ina uniform i dont think i could keep my tongue in my mouth. well i say that but i would want to see the guy really fill out the uniform, you know the whole big muscles and washboard abs and the strong thighs, (drooling)
i mean im not opposed to dressing up to spice it up if you know what i mean. but damn guys can pull it off way better, however im probably bias as i know how to appreciate a good looking man but i do have to say some girls are right up there with the men i mean we do have great curves (winkwink)

any way i think i am done thinking about this topic although i am curious to think what you readers feel on the subject. leave comments and let me know.

laters Bloggers

Ashleigh xo
ps. im pretty partial to the fire fighter stripper if i say so myself