Sunday, 4 October 2015

My best friend part 1

Dear Bloggers/Readers,

Recently i just got back from a holiday with my crazy best friend.
My best friends name is Hannah, and i have never met anyone like her before, she drives me up the wall and i do the same to here but we feel like we are sisters. we just get each other. we can read each others minds i swear sometimes it feels like shes in my head. on some occasions we will be sitting in complete silence and the next thing you know we will start singing at the same time, it will be the same song and the same lyrics, its freaky as fuck. we always say that we are sharing the same brain waves and that we must have been twins in our past lifes because that is the only expanation i can give for the freaky stuff that happens to us on a daily basis.

anyway recently we had to say a heartbreaking goodbye as she left me to go to another school. luckily she is still close by, i dont know what i would do if i lost my bestfriend and luckily i dont have to think about that. any how a memory of us popped into my head and i thought why not share it. i'm pretty sure there are tones of people who have a crazy best friend and have numerous stories to tell so i though i would start the chain reaction.

if you have seen my previous posts you will know what some of my friendships turn into, they are crazy and full of joy. all you have to do is look at the video and see what i mean, and for those who are readying this and havent looked i urge you too, you get to laugh at my expense and trust me you will enjoy it.

again back to my lovely memory of my best friend. before i start i want to say that my best friend is an amputee and she is a quad, meaning that she lost her arms and legs. now i am very protective of my best friend and if you are reading this and have something against disabled people, i suggest you exit the screen right now and do not leave comments because i wont have it. she is the most amazing person i know and she is strong physically and mentally and i wont allow for her to be put down. i also wont answer any personal questions about her as it is no ones business all people need to know is that she is my best friend.

okay lets begin. basically a few weeks before we went to Jamaica we were in America getting her prosthetic legs so that she could walk and be taller, not that she could walk before but this made it easier for her although it was hard work but i was there to support her along with family and im glad i got to see my best friend succeed. okay so now that she has her legs we ended up in Jamaica. we shared a room for the holiday and let me tell you this i almost died a few times from asphyxiation because she made me laugh so hard.

anyway half way through the holiday we went down to the pool for the day and went and sat in one of the spa beds. i had to wheel her down to the pool and beds in her wheel chair as wearing the legs takes a toll and she needed to sit down, i didnt mind at all. so when we get to the beds i wheel her up about a metre away from the beds. i take all the junk that i placed on her lap off and place in on the beds so i can organise it. i turn my back for about 3 seconds before i hear a thud from behind me. i was almost afraid to turn around but when i did i wanted to laugh so fricking hard i felt like my stomach has closed up because i was trying so hard not to. there on the floor was Hannah with her prosthetic legs in front of her spread open, she was looking so shocked like she couldn't believe that had just happened. that did it i laughed out loud dispite her dismay. i bent down and pulled her legs of while i was still laughing. she just shook her head and told me that its not funny, all she wanted was some independence. my response to her was "of all days you decide to have independence is when you are sitting in your messed up wheel chair on a slope with one brake that it dodgy" i cried with laughter all over again while i propped her legs over my sunbed. when i finally did sit down she was like you could have just helped me and i said "i did i took your legs of for you" and gave her one of my smiles. lets just say i got the dirties death glare from her.

so yeah that is one of my many moments with my best friend.
i have many more and will be happy to share.

keep an eye out for my other posts as well.
if you have any memories of your own dont hesitate to send them my way i would love to hear what you and your friends have gotten up to :)

laters bloggers

ashleigh xo

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