BE BOLD

Dear Bloggers/Readers

Ive been trying to figure out what to write next and what to talk about. if im honest yesterday's post scared me. i was sharing a part of me to everyone and i was scared what the reaction would be. i didnt want the people i know to judge me as they didnt know thats what happened in my life. it wasnt like i was hiding it from them it just never came up.

Sharing a piece of me yesterday made me feel better knowing that people were going to read it and maybe understand better what it means to be a self-harmer. i didnt mean to make any one uncomfortable and i apologise to those i did but if im honest it felt good. i dont know what i was so scared about. people say that when you talk about something you end up feeling a lot better because you got it out your system. i have to agree. now that its out there i feel better im glad i did it.

realising this i dont want to hold back in fear of what people might say. i have had a difficult life and yeah somethings i am not ready to share but other stuff im happy to do it because i know it will make me feel better.

i want to be bold and not have anyone hold me back and that is exactly what i am going to do.

the reason for writing this post was not only to share my feelings about my post but i wanted to talk about being Bold.

many people hold back in what they want to say because most of the time they are afriad of being judged, they are afriad that maybe when they speak out people arn't going to like what they have to say. i can agree with that. sometimes you might want to say something but realise that if you do it might be inappropriate or might come across as offensive. everyone is entitled to their opinion and shouldnt be afraid to say what they want. we are all human and we want to be heard.

For all those people out there who hold back what they want to say, dont. free your words because thats all they are words. they are powerful and can be life changing. words have the power to hurt people but they also have the power to make people feel free and happy. dont hold back for anyone.

there are always two sides to the coin and you never know which way it will land but you shouldnt be afraid anymore because life is too short to keep your words to yourself.

if your one of those people who judge people on what they say, then maybe you should in the mirror and see what type of person you are. you get to speak your mind and use your words, why cant other people?

we are all equals and everyone preaches this, how comes no one believes in it?

anyway i think i am done with this little speech and what have you.

if you have something to say, use your words and leave me a comment.
by readers

ashleigh xo